Sunday, March 21, 2010

Despite our frailties

Our home teacher just called to double check what time he is coming. That is typical. He first calls to set up an appointment. This morning it was, "This is Brother ___. I'm your 'come every month guy'." Then he forgets when the visit is and has to call back a few hours later. He has Alzheimer's. He comes alone as his partner is unavailable. He usually doesn't give a lesson as that is difficult for him. Carrying on a conversation is limited - as I tend to ask a lot of questions (which is not very effective with an Alzheimer's victim). Once or twice in every visit he tells us he has Alzheimer's. We tend to repeat a lot of the same conversations each month. I don't know him well - as he's only been in our ward a year (part of the new segment that was added to our ward), but I have a great love and respect for him. He comes every month. He is dressed in Sunday best when he comes. He doesn't let his forgetfulness stop him from serving. I feel honored to have him come each month.

Just showing up month after month may be the best message possible. Keep serving. The Lord can make use of your strengths and your short comings.

2 comments:

Lori Hurst said...

I love this post ...

Cherri said...

I loved it too, reminded me of dad and his home teaching. I wish he had had families as accommodating as you. Perhaps your kindness comes from lessons learned with dad.